Maturity

You cannot be a winner without maturity and consistency.

Marco Silva

Maturity

Maturity: 

     In my own words, maturity is how we behave at a place and act according to it. Controlling our emotions, when we’re in peak anger, being aware of the place and time, then Reacting to our circumstance. 

 10 Signs of Maturity:

•  Respect Differences 
• Accept heartaches 
•  We don’t judge easily 
•  Open-minded 
•  Avoid toxic relationships, instead of fighting. 
•  Happiness comes from your inner self, Not from others. 
•  Sleep is a better way without wasting time. 
•  Respect relationships, Better than forcing each other. 
•  Forgive more, But they never trust again and again.
•  A small-time that your favorite person spends with you, it means the most!

 Over maturity leads to problems: 

     Usually, parents compare maturity over other children's, not only in kids, even in friendships most of them compare maturity. Children nowadays are over matured without age maturity. But this maturity can be a danger as he grows older. So when he becomes a youngster, he can cause uncontrollable problems, he may become problematic in the future, this is also a drawback. 

 Stages of Maturity:

•  Life
  
•  Love
•  Marriage

Maturity Stage of Life:

     As above said, maturity is how we behave at a place and act according to it. Controlling our emotions, when we’re in peak anger, being aware of the correct place and time, Reacting to our circumstances. It’s a default we never change, we never regret it.

 Maturity Stages of Love: 

     Couples in mature love, they come across struggles and conflicts. Conflict- this stage of mature love, didn’t mean that there is no way of a fight between, but both have contradictions lighter. After the stages of love, they earned trust, understanding, and expectations of the other. 

 Maturity of Marriage: 

     In this stage, we need more maturity compared with other stages. These have 5 stages to become made for each other. 

Fantasy stage or a romantic stage- lasts up to 2 years.

The disappointment Stage is also known as “Disillusionment stage”- This means we tend to trust the person as we imagined before, but in a practical sense we are disappointed in it.

A competitive stage or power struggle stage- fight between them competitively in a particular sphere.

Stability stage- Being stable to each other, After all these, u become a mature person that both u make this stage as Commitment Stage. 

     These stages that I come across, I have my own thoughts on this, that I would like to share. There are so many stages of maturity in everything.